tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-86351032080768981672024-03-13T09:12:58.404+05:30Wandering FingersSupriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.comBlogger93125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-63708862372353368192019-08-30T10:34:00.001+05:302019-08-30T10:37:05.515+05:30Three Tail Tales<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I have been really intending to write this for a long time now, almost about 3 days to be precise, but procrastination coupled with my supreme lethargy always always wins.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">A few days back, as in 3 days back the world celebrated International Dog Day, and, I must confess that I have not come across a single dog, who didn't extend their cushy-paws if I have put my hand in front!</span><br />
<span class="_4yxo _4yxp" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-style: italic; font-weight: 600;">Tommie</span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">, an Alsatian, was the first living being I saw that was even smaller in size than I was at the age of 4, and, he, 21 days. I remember seeing him for the first time after returning from school. It is, in my opinion, my first memory, which eventually I have also realised is my first memory of feeling an emotion. Feeling of happiness and joy. The only one younger to me and </span><a class="_2u0z" data-hovercard-prefer-more-content-show="1" data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=100015926224289&extragetparams=%7B%22eid%22%3A%22ARDNg9tUg6lKpCHyuF0W1wWSTp5nuYON44NXdlnI_fnCwKu8oVfSM13m-8SCivJRj9WbnFJ1tmEuf9EL%22%7D" href="https://www.facebook.com/priyanka.de.5836?eid=ARDNg9tUg6lKpCHyuF0W1wWSTp5nuYON44NXdlnI_fnCwKu8oVfSM13m-8SCivJRj9WbnFJ1tmEuf9EL" style="color: #385898; cursor: pointer; font-family: "trebuchet ms", sans-serif;" title="Priyanka De">Priyanka De</a><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"> in the entire house was Tommie. He was our </span><span class="_4yxo _4yxp" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-style: italic; font-weight: 600;">LIVE toy</span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">! </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Within months, even though younger to us, he outgrew both of us, and then became more a friend than a toy. We would sit around him for hours. We played together. We all got drenched while he was bathed. We checked his plate while we ate and so on. But, with such a built and deafeningly bold bark, he was perceived as intimidating over the actual fun giant that he was. Till date, whenever I remember him, I sincerely wish that all those who were intimidated, could have just gathered a bit more courage to pat his head, and he would have turned into a fur ball in a blink. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">But that's all gone alright! I still remember him. He would definitely remain my first and last memory of knowing a living being so closely. He will forever be our first LIVE toy. He shall forever be my lesson to know that love once gone is gone forever.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">... After almost a decade, came another love burst with a more docile demeanor. If I ever had a ‘</span><span class="_4yxo _4yxp" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-style: italic; font-weight: 600;">Lethargy Lord</span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">’, he shall be the one - </span><span class="_4yxo _4yxp" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-style: italic; font-weight: 600;">Nanu</span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">! This beige fur mat barked only when he heard the shriek of the gate in the evening, when my uncle returned home from work. Otherwise, he would never bark, at none. Every vendors, who came to our house couldn't resist petting him for his super-high adorable quotient and a 'patient ear'. Every sabjiwali would talk to him about how difficult it is to charge any less for the vegetables while our grandmom (Dida) would haggle till the last penny. He would look assuringly at everybody speaking to him, resting his face between his paws, rolling from one side to another, faking an alert ear, and then walked away if the conversation tend to be lengthy.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Peace and calm seemed to have gotten their meaning from him. He was so peaceful (read lethargic) that when the house-help came to mop the floor, he didn’t move an inch. He was slided from one spot to another. He was our fur mat on chilly nights. He was our Dida's company to the cow shed every morning. He was our '</span><span class="_4yxo _4yxp" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-style: italic; font-weight: 600;">Pawed Zen</span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">'. He was too quiet to even let us know that while he was walking away into the Sal garden at dusk, wagging his tail, he sought a different world and let the </span><span class="_4yxo _4yxp" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-style: italic; font-weight: 600;">‘Thunderous Jimmy’ </span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">take over. </span><br />
<span class="_4yxo _4yxp" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-style: italic; font-weight: 600;">Jimmy </span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">made his way into the verandah through the garden. Almost for about a week, he would come running from nowhere when Dida was in the garden. He would run around, be playful, bark at butterflies and then stare at fallen flowers. For such a lively company, Dida considered it only humane to acknowledge her presence by feeding 2 chapatis and milk. For a week, she would lick the bowl clean and leave, until the day she didn't leave. She stayed. Stayed back and gave birth to 6 adorable beige, black and white buttons. Thunderous as she was, Dida was little apprehensive about going close to her that morning, and I ran to the outhouse where she sat tired and proud. I stood at the door clueless with joy for about a minute and then slowly stepped towards her wondering whether or not to step nearer. As I squat a few meters away, with the slightest ounce of energy left in her, she cubbed each of those button between her jaws and put them in front of me and stared as if to say, ‘here they are’! I took each of those button in my hand and patted them wondering if it was a dream!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Till the last day on earth, if I have to answer whether or not I have experienced heaven on earth. I without a doubt have my answer ready.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">To </span><span class="_4yxo _4yxp" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-style: italic; font-weight: 600;">Tommie, Nanu and Jimmie</span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">... be wherever you are, be the one you are!</span></div>
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Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-69252561548433372302016-12-27T09:41:00.000+05:302016-12-27T09:41:01.792+05:30Yuletide Sun<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">We Bengali use a very culture specific phrase </span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">during Durga Puja, 'pujo</span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"> pujo roddur', which roughly means that the sunshine is very specific to these Pujo days. This statement basically connotes the happy, feel-good vibe prevalent during this period of celebration.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">During Christmas, both love and nip in the air pleasantly increase. The only expectation people around have from you is to, eat, drink and be merry. This time of the year is even more special as the year is about to roll its shoe, thus, subtly making one reflect on the time gone by and gearing up to welcome the new year. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">The days and the nights are all about pleasant surprises with Santas running around in every shape and size, that too with a gift for you. The reds and the whites set tone for every cheerful moment and a peaceful gratitude for the same. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Make this the time to revel in every form of joy, because this time is all about baking, cooking, drinking, eating, smiling and hugging each one around like they deserve it.</span></div>
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Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-46390456579260631512016-12-19T20:38:00.001+05:302016-12-22T20:30:53.374+05:30Champagne of Tea<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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respect for tea-drinkers, who knows their cup of tea to a tee! </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">The realization that there are sprawling
tea gardens and that tea smell little weird than how it actually smells in a
cup, came to me quite late in life, when I visited Darjeeling with a
gang of 25 relatives, cousins and a dear friend of one of my cousins, who I
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with a very promising 20+, when I was a decade and a half old and so was the
climactic degree of the place, did stir a lot in my cup. The morning dew and
mists, evening fog, a veil of cloud suddenly blocking your view as you walk
uphill; were the things that made me fall in love with the beauty of the hills
more than anyone in the trip. That was the first time I realized what beauty ‘hills’
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most adventurous I can claim myself to be is in matters of tea. My favourite
tea places range from Nasir Da’s stall, on whose “lebu-cha” (lemon tea), I
have spent my university days, to some of the sprawling and most illustrious
tea houses in Bombay. My indulgence in tea has made me taste anything from a
paste of Matcha to a porcelain of world's top Single Estates, but the best I have tasted
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than I could blink, I remember, a deafening silence engulfed the entire region
within minutes. One by one, lights of houses downhill went on, the chill in the
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I vividly remember the bliss I experienced. A warm hug of a person, who I
met for the first and the last time on that trip, snuggled a little close to me
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I have lived that beautiful moment, other than what is rightly referred to as
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Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-9359559246069991792016-12-07T17:08:00.002+05:302016-12-07T17:08:42.944+05:30'I Wish I Were' A Train!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Childhood - a place we always want to go back to once we are past the time-age boundaries of being called a child. Childhood is like that quick beautiful glimpse that pass by right at the moment it is there; much like the glimpse of the vast open expanse that pass by as we move forward sitting in a train. </div>
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Train - that's what 'I Wish I Were'. Train, the abode that keeps moving forward to embrace the unknown in a rhythmic clatter of chaos and peace. Trains, are the place where strangers exchange greetings, opinions and foods, become friends before never meeting again. Trains gives one the moments to experience oneself within a stipulated time period. Trains allow one to enjoy the comforts of home amidst strangers. </div>
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By being a train I would get to travel across the length and breadth of the country through terrains and topography that changes every hour. Various languages that trains get to hear from millions of passengers everyday, makes it a linguistic institution in itself. The passengers, the vendors and the staffs, each is a unique set, that hop onto this rhythmic movement with a certain objective - to reach a destination, to sell their wares and to approve the passengers' journey.</div>
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In this harried world, where everybody tries to be better than the rest, train is the place where everybody wraps themselves in a peaceful cocoon of being and doing what one desires. Read a book, listen music, stare blankly at the world outside or just sleep like a log. Train is a shell that just let you be and thus, be happy. </div>
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Lastly, as a train, you make people believe that journey is as much or more eventful than the destination itself; much like the fact that no matter how much we clutch on to the times gone by, there's no option to stand still until there's a STOP ahead! Trains reinstate the mantra - move forward as you reminisce the past and embrace the unforeseen!</div>
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Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-9784399098608574902015-02-22T00:35:00.000+05:302015-02-22T00:35:03.596+05:30What is the first thing that people notice about you?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
It's no secret that I'm a regular on Social Media platforms - from Facebook to Linkedin, from Twitter to Instagram, from Blogspot to Google Plus and Pinterest in between! Did I say, Linkedin? I keep forgetting about it!<br />
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Well, then, let it not be a secret that I'm also present on almost all matrimony sites. It might not be a secret, but still giving benefit of doubts. But, the point of concern is, I'm there, just there, but not a regular! No, honestly, I'm not. Seriously, no. I want to be, but I'm not!<br />
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It's not because I'm not interested or I'm too busy. I can have as much time I want to, but that shouldn't imply I'm unemployed! I'm paid to stalk people on social media. If not people, brands. My client's competitors.<br />
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Coming to the point, I'm not regular on matrimony sites because of the conscious effort that one need to put and look for only a certain type of people - responsible, stable, should not sound funny but should be interesting blah blah.<br />
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That pretty much gives away the fact that, give me a specific/certain thing to do - and I lose interest in a blink. Totally. Ask me to wander aimlessly and i will never return! Yes, escapist - that can be said for me!<br />
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Now, if you are done with gaining sadistic pleasure by calling me an escapist, the prime reason why I'm not regular on matrimony sites is also because of a weird question that's asked - "What is the first thing that people notice about you?"<br />
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Prompt comes my answer: Shouldn't those so called 'People' answer this? How on earth am I suppose to know what 'People' think about me!<br />
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But then, not to make myself sound like a know-it-all or a dimwit or a snob, I answer - May be my height - or the lack of it. OR My weight - because i keep throwing it around - literally - still, I don't lose it!<br />
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On giving such answers, I often get remarks like - You are funny!<br />
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Believe me, I'm not. But, truth, i think it is!</div>
Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-18803495914609431342015-01-26T04:14:00.002+05:302015-01-26T04:14:16.314+05:30Stories and Laughter!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
14 years back. It was a bright sunny day. I was sitting on the window sill.<br />
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Everything looked perfect until the telephone rang. I didn't understand a thing.<br />
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Later that day I saw you lying on a weak bed, wearing a white red bordered sari, hair parting smeared with sindur, a bold round laal tip on your forehead. Like you used to look every evening. Dadu, you and myself sitting on your lap. You looked the same. Just that you were asleep a little too soon. No one tried to wake you up.<br />
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That night, you didn't sleep beside me. You didn't come. You never came.<br />
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Now, when i laugh out loud, they say it resemble and sound like your laughter!<br />
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If that's true, I will wait a little longer to hear stories from you! </div>
Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-74388983855152617882015-01-26T03:15:00.001+05:302015-01-26T03:45:26.272+05:30Cold Noisy Nights! Colder Noisier Days!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Cold breeze! It's soothing. It brings along a whiff of nostalgia.<br />
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It's not cold here in Bombay. 24 Degree Celsius at 2 in the night! It can't be more pleasant.<br />
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But it is cold, colder than those January nights when it used to be 3 degree celsius, inside a room. Only a little hole in the window would bring in a shrill thin blow of chilly winds.<br />
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Those were cold January nights.Those were cold January noisy nights.<br />
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Under 2 blankets, covered from head to toe, feet covered in woolen socks, a scarf tied on the head, ears covered! Still, these sounds crept in, in the middle of the night, under 2 blankets and a scarf.<br />
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Whistle of the passing train, a goods train, bapi told me once. It crept in from a distance, blowing whistle at intervals and then while crossing the station, it chugged slowly, but the whistle screamed loud, louder. As if telling the natives the pain of carrying tons of weight. Every night.<br />
It took 2-3 minutes to pass by, the whistle a little mellowed at a distance, slowly but steadily merging into the silence of the dark cold nights.<br />
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The silence soon was intervened with rhythmic snores coming from the rooms of the house. Bapi, Chorda, Sejo Kaka, each one had a different rhythm, but maintained their rhythm. Rhythmic rise and fall, in perfect coordination with one another, as if they had planned the pattern at the dinner table! Trying to decipher the rhythm, waiting for a rhythm to rise and another to fall, was a game I indulged in.<br />
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Then the watchman came with his whistle, hitting the <i>lathi </i>on concrete road, moving it through the corrugated shutters of the shops, <i>jaagte raho </i>... all lent a pattern to the soundscape. Everynight meeting of the dogs. At times, they were shooing off a dog from another street, at times a lazy bark, a fun hoof or just a shrill cry in unison, like wolves! A leaking tap in the bathroom, a tip and then a top as it fell into the pool in the bucket kept under it!<br />
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Sound of the bell from the nearby temple, and then few more bells. It grew louder and louder...followed by the '<i>azaan</i>'. These sounds were scary, these cracked the night to the dawn, dawn to the morning, to the moment where Ma would soon knock the door and run down the stairs screaming '<i>uthe poro</i>', soon followed by the struggle to move out of the blankets, move out of a world which was defined not by vision but by sound!<br />
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Those cold nights...warmer than the days today. Those shrill of whistle...softer than the noise that rings in the head today!<br />
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Those cold nights. Not as cold as today's.</div>
Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-76196684555303921172014-07-23T11:42:00.000+05:302014-07-23T11:42:03.179+05:30The woods are lovely, dark, and deep!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I'm not a student, faculty or parent of a student studying at Whistling Woods International. I have been to this institute, because this is one among those few places which welcome film enthusiasts just for the love of Cinema. I remember the first time i visited. An educational institute dedicated to Film, Media and Fashion!<br />
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In a country where every second youth aspire to be a part of this industry, how many such institutes do we have? Not many, right! So here, I was in an institute that was catering education in the field, which is growing manifold every passing year. Training, grooming students in subjects that many would wish to study but cannot pursue because of a huge void in terms of educational facilities offered in this sector. Great, so this institute is providing educational support to all media aspirants and enthusiasts, alright. But, the next thing that caught my attention was, how many educational institute with an intent to cater formal education dare to have a motto "Do What You Love"? Needless to say, i was floored and that's the spirit, the vibe i thoroughly enjoyed while in this sprawling campus.<br />
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8 years old and their achievements as an educational institute surpass many other institutes' promise to deliver a lot more. The way they operate makes it clear that it's not financial or political support that makes an institute flourish. It's the students, their achievements, their love and support for their institute, a bevy of experts as faculty, hands-on experience on equipments students get, internship with acclaimed media houses, international collaboration for student-teacher exchange program and a lot more.<br />
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I have been following the news closely and being a regular on social media platforms, i can very surely say, that such relentless support from far and wide, students speaking for their institute, alumni sharing their experiences, cinema enthusiasts standing by, can only be because of what the institute has done over the years - they have touched lives in some way or the other, they have inspired and nurtured many a creative soul, they must have done a lot more, as it keeps reeling in my head.<br />
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My wishes and prayers for you because you have inspired me somewhere, in some way. Keep up the spirit, the flag will fly high in days to come. </div>
Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-41725349393761348812014-06-19T23:52:00.002+05:302014-06-20T00:00:15.041+05:30One to Live In? or, The One To Die For - Bombay!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Some days remain etched in memory - Today is one such day. I landed in Mumbai on this date, exactly 4 years back - June 20, 2010.<br />
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Mumbai to me was busy broad well-lit roads, Mumbai was people always on the move, Mumbai was people boarding and alighting running trains, Mumbai was tall buildings, Mumbai was Bollywood, Mumbai was flamboyant, Mumbai was mafia, Mumbai was money, Mumbai was Bombay, Mumbai was a sea-laced city, Mumbai was a dream, which had come true.</div>
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A hot humid day, I landed in this city, nervous and slowly finding my way out of the airport, boarded an auto, paid more than double (realized a few days later), went looking for an accommodation to stay, met a long lost friend and extremely tired, retired early for the day while still trying to analyse whether taking this plunge into an unknown, bigger than the sky city would do any good! </div>
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The rains continued but Life didn't stop. People were hanging from the window rods of the 'BEST' buses, trains brought in thousands with dripping clothes, children splashing in the puddles with floral or transparent rain coats and passers-by with their trousers folded upto the knee and drenched from head to toe, were on the move with a spirit that can't be defined. This rhythm of rain and Life struck a chord in me, which still rings vibrant and throws hues of colours that has kept me dancing to the tune of this city.</div>
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Since then, the city has been a place, which i'm still so mesmerised with that i can't call it a 'Home', but so dear that it's just not a city - the madness, zeal, zest, love cannot be bound by just a name!</div>
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Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-31163174246992480172013-12-29T03:41:00.003+05:302013-12-29T19:58:25.468+05:30Will Sparkle Forever!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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A sudden whiff of a strange weird thought. But think of it,
it’s some thing that affects each one of us everyday in someway or the other – the
sense of Loss – Death. A term that takes away from us something very dear, very
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This struck me very distinctly with the news of Farooque Shaikh
passing away. Instant reaction, must be someone I don’t know. A second reaction,
how? A third and so on and so forth as news kept coming and confirming that it was this actor, whom we always praised both as an actor and a person, but never spoke of it so verbally as we are doing now. Later, i also thought about his family. What the family must be going through. A healthy, hearty person goes to Dubai for a concert, with his family, and a few days
later the family returns without him. It’s scary, incomprehensible.</div>
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While mulling over the news, I started to think about him in
terms of what he did best and was widely known for, Acting. I distinctly
remember watching him first in ‘<b><i>Katha</i></b>’, which was aired on Doordarshan. To which, I
remember my aunt’s reaction to Farooque Shaikh’s character – <i>‘issh, erom lok hoyeche keno? Onno shob
chobi te ki bhalo bhalo paat kore’ </i>(why is he playing such a character, he
is such a nice person in all other films.) She was not liking the fact
that Farooque Shaikh, an actor with an established image of a next door,
well-behaved neighbour, someone who would never go wrong by principle & choice, was
playing such a character. This, I’m saying gauging the impact that reel has
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Taking the point from here, I also thought of many such
artists who we have known through our parents; and to sit and reflect back,
most of them died in the past 4-5 years. People whom we knew and grew up to only to admire
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There were these set of artists about whom my father would
selflessly and forcefully pitch for. They were the icons he grew up with. He,
given the bleakest opportunity would praise and show his fondness and respect
for Dilip Kumar, Raj Kapoor & Dev Anand over Amitabh Bachchan and Sashi
Kapoor, Sachin Dev Burman over Rahul Dev Burman, Md. Rafi & Mukesh over
Kishore Kumar and so on and so forth. With progress of time and era, even the
lesser preferred artists in the above equation were GOD when compared to the
ilk of the modern day artists, who were, the Khans, the Maliks, the Sanus & so on. But, keeping judgement aside, our choice and taste are influenced by the contemporaries, which, as we grow keep changing
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heard in the last five years. We have heard, known and learnt about them from our
previous generation, they actually belonged to that generation. Still, we
relate to them so much that news of death does leave in us a sense, a realization of irreplaceable, irreparable
loss. In that case, how do our parents feel about these losses? What’s the magnitude
of void that they experience? How difficult is it for them to hear and accept such
news? Do these news create in them a sense of despair and helplessness of
having to face an inescapable truth – sooner or later! Do they long to go back
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Sooner or later, such a day would dawn on us too. We would wake
up to hear that our screen icons are no more. They have left back only reels
of memory and would never ever play a character whom we would get a chance to despise or admire.
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Everything cannot be
put in words, but the best that one can do is to live the moment, ease
out, be content, do good and make merry – for Life, is not what you can plan.</div>
Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-66762779064541669532011-12-16T13:11:00.005+05:302013-12-10T11:34:32.902+05:30Winter Warmth<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Cities impact your life. Cultures, people, landmarks affect you for sure; but positively or negatively is how one apprehend it. I personally believe that if one is open to explore the variety that a place has to offer, one cannot really ignore the brilliance of being in a new place and among new people. Impact of a place is much like, you can hate it or love it, but cannot ignore it. Worry not, if a new city doesn't affect you positively, for if it doesn't now, it surely will when you walk away.<br />
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As is said, distance makes you yearn for what has been left behind. Yet again and quite repetitively at that, I am again reminded of a city where I lived for quite a few years and which I would like to believe, helped me evolve and have shaped me as an individual. Shape, literally at that may be!</div>
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The breeze flowing with a certain romantic nip in it makes you feel happy, plain happy. The low fogs on the lake or the mighty river just acts as the soft curtain which raises itself with the subtle warm sun hopping in. The afternoons spent lying on the vast sheet of greenery, dotted with ponnies, sprinkled with the sweet aroma of oranges and a comfort quilt with friends around will surely not make you regret an ounce of missing out on anything lavish, for there can’t be anything as lavish and extraordinaire than this moment, if, you are living in and living it up. </div>
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Soaking in the brilliant glow of the angel’s face above that architectural grandeur you are reminded of a mere human existence. Just then, it’s best to walk in to the chapel which emancipates the hue even more wonderfully with the rainbow colored window panes. The soft hymns reverberate through your senses and you believe that if there’s a thing worth living, it’s this. While meandering through the alleys which stand as a witness to the great Victorian era, you bite into a lavish western breakfast and sip into the aromatic tea of the great land you reside in.<br />
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In the evening, when the air smells of sweet perfumes and people dressed in their generously elaborate woolens walk down the path, the welcoming gesture of the city’s glow resembles that perfect hue of being shy of a beauty walking with the love of her life. Red, golden and silver strips of lights washing down the dirt and murk of an otherwise unnoticed life, the city awaits a gentle kiss on its cheek to re-emphasize the fact that one can live years and wait with a bated breath to get a glimpse of this beautiful, sweet and romantic lady glow in its cordial warmth.<br />
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Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-50559714302208348332011-09-28T19:50:00.002+05:302011-09-28T19:59:47.070+05:30Celebration of Life<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">...and an year rolled by, to welcome The Lady yet again. She waits as eagerly to visit her paternal home as much her annual arrival is awaited here. To welcome her, the sun awaits the tuneful blow of the conch shell collected from the deepest water and then the day breaks to give life a new definition with refined love, togetherness, peace and a heart full of celebration in all its forms.<br />
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... and yet another year passes by, when the beautiful city will stand elegant like a princess dressed in all her finery. Her natives from far and wide will lay bare in her motherly lap and get their soul rekindled with love, fun and madness. Merriment will be observed and ensured in all its form everywhere, but somewhere faraway, on this beautiful mother, the sun will glow a bit more brightly and will shower an ounce of warmth more.<br />
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The mind will wander away a bit to step in the lanes of South Calcutta and the galore of North Calcutta. The heart will miss a few more companion's silly banter, loud laughter and an extra step to the Maddox Square. The harried dress-up session at 95, Southern Avenue will be less harried with one less in blocking the mirror. The boisterous souls at Golpark, Kasba or Chetla will be met from a slight distance and finally the nightly treads to Gariahat, Lake Road, Bhowanipore will have a company less till another dawn breaks till the next.<br />
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... and till then the festivity will be observed with full mirth and undiminished enthusiasm for nothing can possibly alter the spirit of presence of the Goddess on Earth.</div>Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-27506703145891143362011-03-17T21:16:00.000+05:302011-03-17T21:18:14.936+05:30VIBGYOR<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">Holi from my childhood days are something i envy today, needless to mention there are a line up of many miore such days.<br />
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On this day then i used to wake up early in the morning and hunted out that old and withered frilled white frock. Morning was about gulping some interesting breakfast. Soon after, i used to run down to the "laal-bari" to join my cousins for the occassion. All gathered with our choice of colors, splashes of colors on the frock, all merry and tireless, the morning went in a jiffy. Evenings were equally interesting with parents joining the gang with "abir". Abir smelt air and the evening sky colored looked brighter with the brightest of colors.<br />
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Years went by and the days changed, went to Hazaribagh. Celebration was equally exciting but lacked the grandeur. Absence of 9 cousins to play Holi with, the number came down to 1, and i still remember something from those days. A mean gesture rather. Amidst examinations, I was sitting sad. He came up with his palms painted in green and smeared the color on my face from behind, pissed, i didnt enjoy it. I went crazy and screamed at him, went and washed my face rite away...i still regret that behaviour of mine. With an opportunity anytime in future, i would take it all in mirth. Promise :)<br />
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Then days were brighter and the boundaries opened beyond the gathering of 9 cousins. I was a hosteller at the Banaras Hindhu University. Hundreds of girls of more or less the same age..but that's the age where people are serious about their being seniors and juniors than any other thing under the sun, but Holi was one leveler. On this day there were no restrictions and orders took a back seat. The water reservoir under the fountain was filled with water and the color of the water changed in seconds, after playing colors for hours, amidst the examination months, we were treated with special lunch. It was fun..Undoubtedly<br />
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Years older. Jadavpur University. Not much to be said, but colors were played more on the day before the occassion than on the day.<br />
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Since then, only a year or two, i celebrated Holi, but honestly not as heartily. Sometime later, it was on Holi, i.went to a friend's place, while returning a girl on the road sprayed color on me, i was more than happy, i was reminded of my frilled frocks.<br />
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Then, Days started shedding off colors. Nevertheless, with all fun and memories, this day brings in a sign of hope, a dream of coloring the world in our own bright way.<br />
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HAPPY HOLI.. :) </div>Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-71097509929648791612011-02-28T15:42:00.005+05:302011-03-01T13:23:10.630+05:30Sloshed Rhythm<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><a href="http://images.clipartof.com/small/35237-Clipart-Illustration-Of-A-Goldfish-Nibbling-On-The-Tip-Of-A-Pencil-And-Holding-Up-A-Hand-As-If-Presenting-Something.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://images.clipartof.com/small/35237-Clipart-Illustration-Of-A-Goldfish-Nibbling-On-The-Tip-Of-A-Pencil-And-Holding-Up-A-Hand-As-If-Presenting-Something.jpg" width="244" /></a>A pencil in hand<br />
after years swept in sand<br />
not much to moan<br />
neither much left in hand.<br />
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Friends around<br />
talking over bottles of rum;<br />
about times to come<br />
and of the by-gone.<br />
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A bit sleepy<br />
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darkened hours though;<br />
unfolds a brighter day<br />
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By the sea, i sit and sing<br />
of hopes and wishes<br />
and dreams of colorful days.<br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">Will you take my hand into yours?</div><div class="MsoNormal">Will you promise a life long sail?</div><div class="MsoNormal">Through the crest and troughs in the years ahead!</div></div>Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-77832576597248934642011-02-06T03:04:00.001+05:302011-02-06T03:07:50.575+05:30Without Music Life would be a Mistake. - Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><br />
Otherwise a restless person, I have observed that i can stick to only one thing and spend hours. <br />
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It soothes the madness,<br />
It elates the feeling of Feeling Good, <br />
It erases the lows,<br />
It establishes the point of "Change" and 'Constant" in the sweetest possible way,<br />
It teaches me to take as It comes,<br />
It negates the malice,<br />
It helps me to laugh when i feel so,<br />
It encourages me to cry if something feels dry.<br />
and<br />
It gives me a High<br />
and gives me reasons enough to Live my Life.<br />
<br />
"<i>Without certain things, life wouldn't have been what it is.</i><br />
<i>Precious of them all is what we call Music!</i>"</div>Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-37347750870991242602011-01-29T16:01:00.000+05:302011-01-29T16:01:46.274+05:30<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">As weird as it can get! A weird thought passed my mind today. </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Which is more scary and difficult to survive!</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://uvs-model.com/pictures/whirlpool.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="130" s5="true" src="http://uvs-model.com/pictures/whirlpool.jpg" width="200" /></a>Running amidst a blazen forest or </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">jumping into a whirlpool from a height?</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">just as intense the thought was, i needed a smoke to relax.</div><br />
Hungry and sleepy a bit<br />
Helped myself with a packet of Maggi <br />
and a mug of coffee in my fist<br />
<br />
Set with plate, mug and fork<br />
i sat on the bed <br />
and read while waiting for the stuff <br />
to cool to taste<br />
<br />
Reading the last line of an engrossing paragraph,<br />
I saw two red ants running over the page.<br />
Fingerpede (if that is a word) it and saw two more,<br />
and then came running, a few more.<br />
<br />
<br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_fFn8Z6EQaos/TA4xQxOoidI/AAAAAAAAAFA/PmstMyEJ_BM/s320/ants1.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="186" s5="true" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_fFn8Z6EQaos/TA4xQxOoidI/AAAAAAAAAFA/PmstMyEJ_BM/s200/ants1.png" width="200" /></a>To check the scene i picked up the plate </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">and saw them running with an attacking gaze!</div>some swimming in the coffee, some burning in the heat<br />
they had taken up the bed and i felt a red swollen itch.<br />
<br />
The question suddenly changed!<br />
which is more scary?!<br />
to eat ant littered food or sleep with them!<br />
and bam intruded the Reality check!<br />
<br />
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</div>So to conclude: <br />
Life addressed as Dude,<br />
you think i am unaware of the fact that i am one of your prey?!<br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">you attack me in situations where worst expected!</div>to top it all<br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_QsDPnFGWWJo/TB4fXDkbfVI/AAAAAAAAAHw/SYypcSL6CBI/s1600/LOW-RES_UML_BankBalance2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="198" s5="true" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_QsDPnFGWWJo/TB4fXDkbfVI/AAAAAAAAAHw/SYypcSL6CBI/s200/LOW-RES_UML_BankBalance2.jpg" width="200" /></a>Your friend, Destiny, never ever showed me its pretty face</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">A request if i do!</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">I know i am whacky in my own little way</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">but can you please stop poking so hard to say?!</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">My energy and enthusiasm </div>matches my bank balance <br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">so i cannot give in much effort to strike on your ugly looking face</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">but pounce back i will, for sure</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">tommorrow or day after whenever i conjure.</div></div>Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-14002364537042771852010-12-05T18:46:00.000+05:302010-12-05T18:46:23.381+05:30Warm Fragrance<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_VZuOcY6Iqxk/TPuQCOWIYzI/AAAAAAAAAJo/aqbTi6sFxfg/s1600/blog%252Calley.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_VZuOcY6Iqxk/TPuQCOWIYzI/AAAAAAAAAJo/aqbTi6sFxfg/s320/blog%252Calley.jpg" width="257" /></a>Fragrance of winter winds, moisturisers, of those packed woollens..like those napthalene balls lending the woollens their warmth, the fragrance of warmth, of closeness, of nearness, of love that keeps life going in the otherwise chill.<br />
<br />
The onset of winter with its characterised morning sun invading the warm intimacies of lip-locked lovers in arms....and the day rolls in. <br />
<br />
<br />
The winter afternoon with its warm touch..like someone standing by you, holding your hand, assuring you the pleasure of togetherness and with the clock ticking toward the day's end, the fading sun caressing smoothly like lovers walking down a sun-washed alley to part for the day before their next meet, with a gentle kiss stamping their departure and a gentle touch holding a promise to meet soon....and the sun rolls down...Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-26876557635869453592010-11-19T15:53:00.000+05:302010-11-19T15:53:48.266+05:30Blisss..phhhh<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; text-align: right;"><tbody>
<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_VZuOcY6Iqxk/TOZOJJilA9I/AAAAAAAAAJg/1s4icsqRlg0/s1600/drunk+man+very+person+drunkard+sot+wasted+inebriated.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="156" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_VZuOcY6Iqxk/TOZOJJilA9I/AAAAAAAAAJg/1s4icsqRlg0/s200/drunk+man+very+person+drunkard+sot+wasted+inebriated.gif" width="200" /></a></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Blissful</td></tr>
</tbody></table><br />
<div class="MsoNormal">Drinking to the tee…drinking like never before and like there’s no tomorrow and enjoying it to the core as always. With ever increasing waist line and then as any sane person would do, blowing up the rest of the meager earned honey called money in shopping.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; text-align: left;"><tbody>
<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_VZuOcY6Iqxk/TOZOL1nM4wI/AAAAAAAAAJk/Or7D7dXB7Sw/s1600/apple-shape-body.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="131" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_VZuOcY6Iqxk/TOZOL1nM4wI/AAAAAAAAAJk/Or7D7dXB7Sw/s200/apple-shape-body.jpg" width="200" /></a></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Not so Blissful</td></tr>
</tbody></table><div class="MsoNormal">Other activities largely comprises of watching movies...Bollywood Loyalist...you see... no matter how much I crib and cry after watching those shit-spattered on the screen, my Fridays remain incomplete without having gone through that shit splash once a week. You despise me...I DO NOT give a DAMN.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Falling in love with the sea over and over again is not something that I can get over with in this life at least. Bombay looks good with its scorching sun in November and the awkward November Rains. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div> Lovingggggg It.. <span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">J</span></span>Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-67751670630518422202010-10-17T14:45:00.000+05:302010-10-17T14:45:52.572+05:30Where From and Where To !!The 'Notion' of "Pujo-Merriment" ends for this year. The last four days were spent amidst certain issues that worried me, certain gathering where i laughed to welcome the dawn and certain incidents that got etched in those dark memory chambers. 'Pleasurable' it was in its own way. Amidst friends and laughter many were remembered and missed till the dream of a faraway bejeweled city trampled the silence of the night. 'She' leaving for abode wrenches my heart even today. Logical explanation strongly proclaims that the 'reason to leave' is to 'return soon'. The idols with which i shared my deepest secrets and to whom i murmured my prayers will again sink in the murkiness of the monotonous fight to Survive.<br />
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********************<br />
<br />
I again read Love Story, Heidi and Jungle Book. This time while i held these books and moved my eyes through the soft words, the greyness of aging or the speed of raging towards an uncertain future stared hard. The glaring truth of having strained relationship with 'Innocence' and leaving the sense of excitement of being able to relate with the protagonists far behind, posed question about why can't these pieces be enjoyed with the same enthusiasm as was possible ten or fifteen years back?! As an answer I will go back to keep these books in my school library, where i got acquainted with the most enjoyable music of life... 'the hushed humming of my classmates' and then will go and stand by the side of the lake where the setting sun imparts the most vibrant hue to welcome the bright moon and the twinkling stars. I will leave these books on the grass by that lake where open eyed dreams knew what a soul mate is.<br />
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<br />
Twelve years: left Daltonganj. A small, uncivilized, barbaric town in Jharkhand. Yes, the adjectives perfectly define the place, but sadly not as per my belief. How can I?! The hot afternoon loo taught me that 'unbearable' is just a word, everything has a soothing presence about itself. Had it not been so hot, could i have ever known what fun it was to sit with cousins and play tell-a-tale under the staircase! The chilly winter breeze silenced me with its gift when questioned about its pinch on the bare skin. It whispered in my ear that had it been not the way it is,how would i have enjoyed the bliss of those morning dew. The swelled up river Koel never stood by me and always encouraged me to flow along with.<br />
<br />
**********************Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-44023833712643272632010-09-16T11:34:00.001+05:302010-09-16T11:38:32.828+05:30Blurred Vision<div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-IN">..and you HAVE to say this and you turn around with that ‘gossip’ urge just to realize, its a different office, different environment, different people and then you turn to the screen and log on to g-chat and see that green blob beside the name with whom you wanted to share it..but the excitement-of-the-moment-and-matter is gone. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-IN"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><a href="http://blogs.arts.unimelb.edu.au/refractory/files/2008/04/clip_image016.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://blogs.arts.unimelb.edu.au/refractory/files/2008/04/clip_image016.jpg" /></a><span lang="EN-IN">...and you want to sip some coffee and chat and laugh it out loud and bitch and after you have dialled, the phone rings and you realize the geographical distance between, but then you continue to talk some irrelevant stuff while trying to fight the distance.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-IN"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-IN">...and you have that ‘blank expression’ on your face after coming out of the theatre, and on gauging the ‘positive’ or ‘negative’ of the expression you miss words like ‘and this awesomeness calls for a celebration’.. or ‘ we really need to treat ourselves for going through such a pain’... and in either cases you head to one of your favourite places on earth or its just Someplace Else.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div>Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-82942722148090743552010-08-05T15:06:00.008+05:302010-08-05T15:58:01.436+05:30Forwarded SMS vs. The Quilt .. ;-DMay be it wasn't necessary to discuss certain things...<div><br /></div><div>It wan't at all necessary to tread down the memory lane and ask whether he remembered their first outing together!</div><div><br /></div><div>It wasn't at all necessary to let him know that it felt bad when he took immense pleasure and got his ego boosted up with those frequent 'silent treatments'</div><div><br /></div><div>It was not at all necessary to let him know that she remembered certain dates more than she could remember her first salary date/month and year</div><div><br /></div><div>But it was necessary for her to get the fact reinstated that it was a deal sealed for enjoying certain physical intimacies.. she gave in "whole-'heart'edly" and he was there with all his might...</div><div><br /></div><div>It was necessary to enjoy a certain thing with him and for once...'His Silence', which boomeranged on to him when he was casually being questioned initially and then he fell into the trap. She could almost see him crave for a shelter to save himself from the fury of the questions which she never intended to ask otherwise.</div><div><br /></div><div>For once she made him suffer in his own 'Silence'. She gave a shit about the 'self-pity' reply from him, which read, "Honestly, I am to be blamed". She knew that she had nailed him atop, she knew it was like a conscious mind and brain going through the sheer pain of an amputated feet and hands.</div><img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VZuOcY6Iqxk/TFqMmWuk6-I/AAAAAAAAAJQ/LxD91wQuFLk/s200/0511-0908-1723-0024_Black_and_White_Cartoon_of_a_Man_Making_an_SOS_in_the_Sand_clipart_image.jpg" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 185px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5501864485350337506" /><div><br /></div><div>One last sms she wrote, "Will be meeting Kruti over a coffee tomorrow. she want to tell me about the guy she is recently going around with, coincidentally, the guy's your namesake."</div><div><br /></div><div>To this he sweated in the dark and cold silence of his room and she slipped into the warmth of her quilt while switching her phone into the silent mode with a smile and thanked some one for the meaninglessness of these stupid forwarded sms. Someone was caught tight and unalarmingly by sending a fake 'emotion evoking' forwarded sms.</div><div><br /></div><div>Next morning she woke up to see 88 missed calls from the same number, her day started with a bout of laughter... for she knew not any Kruti in this whole universe.</div><div><br /></div>Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-69476609516396939192010-07-20T16:47:00.007+05:302010-07-21T13:21:46.233+05:30Shower and Smile.. :)A few things first:<div><br /></div><div>I love noticing the numbers ascending beside the word 'comment'..but i get equally disheartened when i land in there all-exited just to realize that i don't know the language... :(.. I thank you all from the bottom of my heart hoping that you have appreciated my writing.. :)..but if you care to discontinue you will be even more appreciated for not leading me to a 'hope-n-miss' case.</div><div><br /></div><div>I changed the template and the font and that motivated me to write today.</div><div><br /></div><div>***********</div><div><br /></div><div>Me in Bombay...for good...having a good time in the new office, loving the work which is similar to what i did long time back and i am enjoying this to the core.</div><div><br /></div><div>Meeting old friends, chatting, catching up from where we left some ten, seven and two years back, making new friends.</div><div><br /></div><div>Exploring areas, getting lost, missing the obvious turns to reach certain places, staring hard at the bus route no. and destination written, standing for hours at some stoppage or stations simply to observe the motion, it feels good.</div><div><br /></div><div>Running to the terrace at midnight, awake from a sleep, to enjoy the silence in an otherwise not-so-silent city, it feels great. </div><div><br /></div><div>Decorating the room with all stuff which never appeared so dear before...a beautiful room but not yet as warm as the one at 95, southern avenue...one thing that never went out of my mind for a nano second since i have left the city.</div><img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_VZuOcY6Iqxk/TEWPL6NoUUI/AAAAAAAAAJI/ev1Ts0MtQiE/s200/monsoon.jpg" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5495956355043316034" /><div><br /></div><div>Shuffling the radio stations to know the programs by time and station. i miss the 'familiar' voices.</div><div><br /></div><div>The frequent drizzle, present-continuous rains, flickering sun, steady moon and the absent stars make my day.</div><div><br /></div><div>Thus were my last 30 days...hope to have more of such experiences. :)</div><div><br /></div><div>P.S: Not getting over 95, Southern Avenue, Lake Road Barista, Sector V, Park Street, Boulevard Swimming Pool, Deshapriya Park, South City is not that i am sad about or i crib... but with these memories i walk to get a glimpse of the city which i am sure will be as much familiar in the coming years..</div><div><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></div>Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-76871406672047028622010-05-21T15:27:00.005+05:302010-05-27T19:55:23.092+05:30I Remember the Day ....started with appreciating the western ghats, streams, tunnels, winding roads and rails, greenery and the dried patches, the serpentine rails and then a sudden realization with an awe.... "Gosh, as soon as this scenic stretch ends, i will find myself in a new place, with new faces all around, away from everything known to the core".<br /><br />i remember making an unreal, impractical <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">wish</span>: The train should move on with its whistle blowing and tearing apart the fear of the unknown, let this be a journey with no destination.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">Reality</span>: The train stopped...yes it did and i was standing amidst everything new with a new found enthusiasm, a new hope to live it up to the fullest..with a new realization.I was embraced by the so called unknown and i realized that i was living a dream tucked faraway.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Thought</span>: Will i be there again and this time will I get a chance to embrace what embraced me an year and a half ago.. !!!!...I Wish..Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635103208076898167.post-19570806721024306492009-11-20T12:18:00.007+05:302009-11-20T17:30:43.095+05:30ABC down the Memory Lane.. :)okk..so i have been tagged twice and today finally i will be doing both the tags... I was tagged by this <a href="http://books-life-n-more.blogspot.com/">enthusiastic lady</a>, to whom i bow down for inspiring me to<a href="http://books-life-n-more.blogspot.com/2009/10/how-to-catch-those-precious-winks-in.html"> sleep in the office</a>, <a href="http://books-life-n-more.blogspot.com/2009/11/yamraaj-with-pony-tail-challenge.html">to be happy...i mean to eat to heart's content and then work out</a> and to feel good and <a href="http://books-life-n-more.blogspot.com/2009/11/of-being-called-aunty-my-1st-ever.html">act accordingly even if someone rightly.. :P took you for an 18 yr old, all mesmerizing pretty lady or makes a mistake in addressing you as someone who has gathered experiences in life but that doesn't get reflected in the natural hair color </a>... So here i go.. :D:D<div><br /></div><div>Tag 1:</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">A – Available/Single?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong>of course, Single.. y both the options together???!!!</strong></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">B – Best friend?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><b>i have many Good Friends...concept of BEST worked out when i was in 3rd, 4th or 5th standard</b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">C – Cake or Pie?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong>Cakessss</strong></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">D – Drink of choice?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong>Anything cold</strong></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">E – Essential item you use every day?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong>Soap</strong></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">F – Favorite colour?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">Red</span></strong></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">G – Gummy Bears Or Worms?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong>None</strong></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">H – Hometown?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><b>Daltonganj</b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">I – Indulgence?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong>Dresses</strong></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">J – January or February?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong>February, salary comes early. :D</strong></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">K – Kids & their names?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><b>whose???</b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">L – Life is incomplete without?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><b>Fun</b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">M – Marriage date?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><b>again whose???</b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">N – Number of siblings?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong>None</strong></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">O – Oranges or Apples?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong>Can i choose both??!!!</strong></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">P – Phobias/Fears?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong>Snakes</strong></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">Q – Quote for today?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><b>Huh!!!....78 thousand million pounds???!!!! :D:D</b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">R – Reason to smile?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong>Numerous</strong></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">S – Season?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong>Sumer, Winter, Rainy, Spring, Autumn</strong></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">T – Tag 3 People?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><b><a href="http://wordly-unwise.blogspot.com/">Apurva</a>, <a href="http://devesh-uba.blogspot.com/">Devesh</a>, <a href="http://eldritchbong.blogspot.com/">Soumyajit</a>..my new blogmates.. :)...</b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">U – Unknown fact about me?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><b>Smart huh!!...y do i disclose??!!!</b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">V – Vegetable you don't like?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><b>if cooked well i can eat anything...i am a foodie..</b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">W – Worst habit?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong>Again...smarter..!!!</strong></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">X – X-rays you've had?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong>Chest..yes..longbackkkk...</strong></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">Y – Your favorite food?</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><b>Foodie i am...</b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; ">Z – Zodiac sign? </span><br /></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-family: verdana; "><strong>Sagittarius..remember i b'day is just a few days away...</strong><b><br /></b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: verdana; font-weight: bold; ">yeaaa..this was fun.. :)</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><b><br /></b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">Now this is another one, "<b>The Memory Tag</b>", where you make a note of 9 sweet memories, i.e, things you miss the most from the by-gone days. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 22px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: verdana; font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; ">I have many posts labeled "Nostalgia", those posts almost say the same story, but here when i get a chance again to scream aloud about what was sooo Good during those days..i think i should not let this opportunity go.. :) infact, i can never get enough of the good old, memories...so here i am again... :)</span></span></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">Disclaimer: Quite a lengthy one..read at your own risk.. :)</span></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">1) <i><b>Luuuwwww for animals</b></i>:</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">Now this is one thing, that my mother keeps telling me even today when she is tired of walking with me. Actually, what happens is, i stop to cuddle baby dogs, cats, cows and any such sweet creatures whenever i get to see them on road, and obviously my mother is bored of waiting for me after every two steps, when i sit down to cuddle the animals...well, this is present and here about the <b>past</b>.... </span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><i><b>Age: 3-6 </b>No one in the family( no matter how dear he/she was to me) could make me have my lunch, if i didn't get to see any baby goat, cow, dog, sheep tied to a post in the courtyard. So my father and a few "help" went running after every such creature around 12.30-1 in the afternoon, so that i eat peacefully and let everyone else be at peace. Thank God he was self-employed or i would have died of hunger.. :D. Once the animal was in front, i would empty my plate within minutes and then would let that animal go free. </i></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><i><br /></i></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><i>2) <b>Brasso</b></i></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><i><b>Age: 3- 15</b> In retrospection to the 1st point, My father started buying artifacts of every animals known to human, made out of bronze, iron, clay or anything, to relieve himself from the duty of running behind animals everyday. and as the number of these artifacts increased, it was a tedious task to polish those pieces and to keep them back in the show case. In a year, there are 2 occasions when these artifacts are polished, Durga Puja and Bengali's New Year. So during these occasions, me, my father and mother used to sit together and polish all these stuff with "Brasso" and keep them back in place. </i></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">I miss that act of sitting together and polishing the animals. Now, my parents continue to do it religiously minus my presence.</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><i><br /></i></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><i>3) <b>Guardian Angel</b></i></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><i>This is when i was in std. 1st/2nd. Foodie that i am, and given my love for rice, i can sit and have it at any given time of the day. So there were these maids, who would sit and have their lunch together, say at around 2-2.30, as in when the family members were done with. So everyone used to bring their plate, sit in a circle and have their lunch in the courtyard. They sat with a jug of water, a bottle of pickle, some onions, chillies and salt. Now, yours truly, went silently and sat beside them with eyes on plate, movement of their hands from plate to mouth and vice-versa and would give a smile if anyone happened to look at her. Seasoned that they were with this cheap habit of mine, they didnt bother much and continued with their lunch. But there were days, when i proved lucky and someone would just give me a gulp or two to munch. Silently haan..if anyone from the family gets to know or see this, i will be beaten to death and needless to say they were more concerned about my well being. As fate had it, it was my mother who saw me from the veranda upstairs, came down, dragged me without saying a word and the maid who fed me, left her plate and came in shouting.."maine use diya hai, wo nahi mangi thi" and on hearing this, slaps went on my cheeks, back, legs and where not..left, right and center. </i></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">This is to say<i>, <b>i</b><b> miss all of them and more with passing time, i miss their warmth, love and care</b>. </i>They have been in our house for generations and knew family members better than one's own brother, sister, mother or father. They were like <b><i>Guardian Angel</i></b> as at times they were the only one to save you from getting some real bad bashing for something foolish or bad you have done. </span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><br /></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">4)<b> G<i>reen and red basket</i></b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><i><b>Age: 4- 6.</b> There were two baskets, green-mine and red-cousin's. These were our dress baskets, stuffed with simple and beautiful dresses, frilled, sleeveless white mini frocks with flower and bird motifs sewed on the chest and at the fall. Invariably, my cousin after the bathing ritual..which was of course an elaborative and exhaustive one for my mother and aunt. It was really tough for my mother and my aunt to make us stand still and scrub because once the soap was applied on our face, me and my cousin would run around with our eyes closed to catch each other...and after bath, my cousin, without fail, would pick a frock from the green basket and i would stand happy as she chose one from my basket and not her own. so her basket was always neat and tidy as neither of us touched the basket. On the contrary, my Basket look Tsunami-struck as she would choose one lying at the bottom. Last time, i went home, i saw two baskets kept one upon another and all empty. </i></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">I miss someone happily wearing my dresses. Now no one can, for the unique girth that i have acquired over the past few years.. :) and also we dont get any more such simplest and most beautiful dresses now.. :)</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><br /></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">5)<b><i>The Monkey Act</i></b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><i><b>Age: 10-15. </b>This is something i miss most from my childhood days...Trees, fruits and squirrels. Summer afternoon were spent in the mango tress...all younger cousins standing below the tree and the elder ones on the tree. we would pluck mangoes and throw it to them..the younger ones would collect and then all together we used to go to the kitchen, offcourse, when parents league were taking a nap. Then we made that khatta meetha aam ka chatni with salt, mustard oil and red chilli and then quarrel our ass out while having it, because as per the rule..people who climbed the tree were suppose to get more than the one who were standing below collecting the fruit.. :)</i></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">With the weight gained, let alone climbing on the trees, i can often hear trees wailing if i pass by some huge tree and a secret desire of climing on the tree flashes my mind.. :D:D:D</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><br /></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">6)<b> <i>The School Rickshaw Van</i></b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: verdana; "><i><b>std:I/II </b>This was one fascination i had...i loved to push the rickshaw van..Now there was this road, slight steep and up-hill, so senior students as in students of std. 3-4, gleefully jumped out of the rickshaw at a particular point and then used to push the rickshaw. i always looked at the act with an eye "when will i reach std. 3rd!!!"...as it was, i couldn't hold on for long and then one day bribed the rickshaw puller(<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">bhaiyaa</span>- as we called him) with a sweet smile and "mere ko aata hai rickshaw dhakelna" talks. so <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3333FF;">bhaiyya </span>agreed and i also jumped out of the rickshaw along with other boys at the right point and time....(there weren't any girls in the rickshaw as far as i remember.). so what happened was..there were no students left inside the rickshaw van, and it was super easy for bhaiiya to pull the rickshaw up the slope. so everything happened pretty fast and the rest jumped into the rickshaw in a fraction of second...so all climbed up pretty quickly and as i was the last one, one of the student i remember told me to hold his hand so that he can pull me up quickly..but given the degree of my adamance, i refused and in the mean time the rickshaw pulled up fast and i laid fallen on the street, scratched my knee and elbow, and crying to wake up some deaf beggar too if there were any around. </i></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: verdana; "><i>So i reach home with knees and elbow cut, blood flowing et al. but as i remeber the incident, it makes me laugh because, i wasnt crying much about the fact that i fell and had hurt myself, rather because, as i entered the home still crying loud to deafen anyone around, i knew how will my mother react to it and more because of the thrashing i would get now. My mother and grand mother standing next to each other, my grand mother was almost there to hug me when my mother snapped in and gave me a brutal tight slap, as she knew (rightly, i use this word now, it didn't appear "right" to me back then), it was mistake of none under the sun and whatever happened, happened only because of my desire to be the smart ass every time. </i></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">I still miss my primary school, that rickshaw van and that ride along the steep road just at the turn from where you could see River Koel.</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><br /></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">7) <b><i>The Trio</i></b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: verdana; "><i>Me, my grandmother and grand father. i remember we three sat together, me on my grand mother's lap. grand mother (Dida) and grandfather (dadu) would talk about anything and everything under the sun, and he also cracked some foolish jokes i believe, because what rings in my ear till date is my grandmother's hearty and loud laugh. i used to sleep with them too. i didnt need my mother and father, grandparents mattered to me the most at that age. i also remember my parents used to go anywhere keeping me with my grandparents at times also out of station, i had no complains, neither do i have one at this age. had it not been my parents i would have never got to know what love of grandparents mean.. :). i used to cry my lungs out when my grand parents went on tour or visit some places. My grandmother died suddenly, when i was in std. 3rd. </i></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">She is the one i miss the most in my life, infact, honestly, i haven't coped up with her death till date.</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><br /></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">8) <b><i>My uncle's marriage</i></b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><i>Me and my cousin, (as mentioned in point 3) were the center of attraction during this event. we were the youngest and tiniest of all in the whole get-together. i remember wearing a white, sleeveless frock with pink embroidery on the wedding day and both of us wearing bermuda on the reception day. now when i see the photographs, i find us both the cutest thing in the whole event. Straight neck length hair, with chinese cut in front (as in hair covering the forehead), white tee shirt, blue bermuda. Cousin: unruly wavy hair, two pony tails, white tee and red bermuda. eating to glory, pampered by one and all, no studies and all fun and frolic. needless to say i had my quota of bashing because i climbed up the bamboos which were tied to build the samiyana. i still remember i reached a height where no one could reach me and people standing on the ground and asking me to get down and me shouting from top, "tell me you will not scold me or beat me, only then i will come down."..i was said i wont be scolded when i was up there...moment i came down...promise was history.. :D </i></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">But one thing i miss now is that, no matter how much i was bashed and beaten, i miss that closeness, that bonding in today's family. let alone uncles and aunties treating you as their own children and feeding u, beating u and scolding u....today i know families where one cousin doesnt even know much about their own cousin.</span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><br /></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;">9) <b><i>L</i></b><b><i>astly and most importantly: Joint Family</i></b></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><i>I miss the joint family structure. It had its share of bad and ugly, but it also had much positive aspect to it. The togetherness, the occasions and festivals celebrated together, gloom shared, laughter spread. it taught me discipline(though the post doesn't say much about my disciplined childhood rather me being a disciplined child), but on a serious note it teaches you to act on time, it teaches u patience, it teaches you meaning of words like respect, honour, faith, trust and many similar words which are less in use today. i remember on weekend morning the constant reminders from any elders dragged us to have a bath on time. Any elders would just say it loud and we knew the instruction went for all. keeping all our stories to rest for half or one hour, we took bath right on time, we woke up on time, we ate on time, we ate together, we slept together. No matter who said what, even if you dont accept you have to act in a way so that the one in front is not hurt or disrespected and that applied for people of all age and class. </i></span></p><p style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 17px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: verdana; ">There was quite a bit of fun in that disciplined and restricted life which i fail to get today, as an independent person. </span></p></span></div>Supriya Duttahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503551055190735344noreply@blogger.com12